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🎁 Valentin's Present - Gratitude

Thank you.

🎁 Valentin's Present

October 15 · Issue #7 · View online
The best content I've ever found. Mouthwatering concepts, tempting questions, juicy books, delicious songs, exquisite short films, and other surprises.

Thank you.

Provoking Picture
Tempting Question
How often do you complain when you could instead be setting an example?

Spicy Habits
Say “Thank You” when you’re running late.
Example: You walk in the door 14 minutes late.
  • Instead of: “So sorry I’m late. Traffic was insane out there.”
  • Try saying: “Thank you for your patience.”
Saying “Thank You” turns the tables and acknowledges the sacrifice the other person made by waiting. Thank you for waiting. 
When we make a mistake, someone else often makes a sacrifice. Our default response is to apologize for our failure, but another approach (often better) is to praise their patience and loyalty.
Text / idea is from this article, which has another 6 situations where we say all sorts of things but simply saying “thank you” is probably the best move.

Send a Thank You email or voicenote
They’re great. No need to say much — the intention is what matters. “Thank you” is a simple yet magical combination of words.

Exquisite Short Film
(5mins) A Grateful Day with Brother David Steindl-Rast - YouTube
Finger-licking Quote
“Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.” —Robert Brault
Mouthwatering Concepts
It’s been a month since I started my Re Human experiment (improving in 15 different areas at a time). I’ve experienced an interesting phenomenon that I think can be explained by the following hypothesis I’m forming:

Diversifying your activities lowers the probability of depleting your willpower.
I believe motivation is highly correlated with progress — if you’re seeing progress in something, you get motivated. If you’re stuck and can’t see a possibility of progressing, you’re de-motivated. For example, I have found it hard to get started on music production whenever it’s “music production” days because I hadn’t been seeing much progress, even though it’s one of the areas I most want to improve on! Our minds are smart and probably evolved into creating this mechanism to not pursue pointless/impossible things.
But this hypothesis of how motivation works might explain a phenomenon I’ve experienced:
By diversifying the activities / areas I’m working on, there’s less chance that I’m completely stuck and don’t feel progress at all. If I were only working on one thing and I get stuck, it would be hard to keep pushing through because I’m not seeing any progress. But because I have 15 different areas that I’m working on, there’s a much higher chance that in a couple of them I’m feeling progress and thus gain will-power — I have 15 different possible sources instead of one.
This is where some of the seemingly pointless areas, such as “soccer trick juggling” have actually turned out to be super useful. I can physically feel getting better at juggling and doing tricks, thus giving me a dose of will-power every day — just by doing 10mins every day.

Further expansion of this hypothesis and 5 other hypothesis I’ve formed/been testing in my monthly recap of my Re Human experiment.

Delicious Music
On Thursday, Drake and Bad Bunny released a new song — MIA. I could tell it was going to be a hit and I wasn’t wrong (already #1 most played song in Spotify). Added to my Aguacate playlist.
This week I found Jungle Dub by Ava Asante & Mollono.Bass, and it made it into my Afrodisiac’s House (Afro House) and Saffrón playlists.
Saffrón is one of the playlists I listen & update the most — it’s over 7 hours of tribal / latin / deep house, very useful for working/creating/studying, background music, and long gatherings.

Thank You
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