I think we often conflate being strong with being walled off. A cold goddess, if you will. You don’t need to close yourself off from love, openness, and intimacy just because you are a logical person who doesn’t fuck around. In fact, the strongest are those who can be vulnerable and trust themselves.
Use that brilliant mind of yours to assess if someone is treating you the way you deserve to be treated. Don’t be afraid to open your heart. Love hard. Even if it’s scary.