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Don't @ me about a threesome when what you're describing is sexual assault.

I received two different emails this week that really freaked me out. Like, shook me to my core. The
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Don't @ me about a threesome when what you're describing is sexual assault.
By Weekly Wisdom with Gigi Engle • Issue #176 • View online
I received two different emails this week that really freaked me out. Like, shook me to my core. The first I can copy and paste here considering it’s pretty general and doesn’t reveal any personal information.
“So I am in a relationship and my best friend asked me if I would participate in a threesome with his girlfriend. He has a crush on me and yet he knows I am in a relationship. Why does he keep asking for a three some if I am already spoken for?” 
My response was as follows:
Because he’s not your friend and doesn’t understand or respect boundaries. Don’t hang out with this creepy dude anymore.
The second email began as an inquiry from a woman about how to her get boyfriend to stop asking for a threesome. The writer then went on to describe textbook emotional and physical abuse, as well as an account of spousal rape. In neither email did either writer seem to understand that these vile men had no places in there lives.
I did not get a response back from either of them. Because most of the time when people write to me “looking for advice,” what they’re really after is validation of their feelings or for me to tell them everything is going to be alright.
Spoiler: I am the wrong fucking person to come to with that shit.
We need to stop allowing people to harm us and hurt us, only to then validate our abusers behaviors. It scares me shitless when I get emails where women, despite claiming to have followed my work, cannot see into their own personal situations to ascertain the truth.
This week, I beg all of you to look inward.
This week’s mantras:
  1. I will take time to look at my relationship and make a list of the things I find wrong (and right) about it.
  2. I will consider the question: Why?
  3. I will really take time to think about my own happiness in both life and in my romantic partnerships.
  4. I will stop expecting bullshit, bare minimum from people who absolutely do not deserve it.
  5. I will love myself.
Have a great week! I love you.

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