I read this headline
Scrap-metal entrepreneur and billionaire Adam Weitsman has bought a penthouse in Sunny Isles, Florida, for $23.5 million.
I processed it two ways. One that you can be a billionaire in any thing you do. The other, I imagined, what would a typical Pakistani boomer parent say to their kids if they decided to be in the “scrap metal trade”, they’d say, don’t be a Kabaria.. Vernacular can be so poisonous. We have clearly put our children across generations at risk by having toxic discussions that do not take into account the dignity of labour. Putting us at a serious dis-advantage and how our economy scales.
Some years ago when I moved back to Pakistan I had a dear friend who was obsessed with launching a pre-bagged meat + uncooked ingredients kit, to make fast quick, clean hassle free meals. Without portion management or fuss, go to this store, pick from what you want to cook, pick out the meat + veggies + masala, bring home combine and cook. Simple home made food without having to know recipes or go shopping for ingredients.
There was an under construction building that had a display store, that he rented by the week to do a mock store, so he could understand the flow. He set it up, invited his family friends, to come walk through, he did user acceptance testing, he got every one to engage he got feedback. Every one loved it. His pre sales took off for his 3 day pop up store. But you know what, he never ever launched this business. Why?
On the last day of the setup, his Taya said to his father, “itna parh likh kay aya hay, bahar raha hay, GOSHT ki dukan kholni thi to Qureshioon main Shadi kar-daytay”
This is wrong on many many levels. The Qurresh or Qureshis were butchers and some parts of the forgotten and
proud history here. The venom and toxicity of my friends “elders” destroyed his drive, motivation and his parents ability to underwrite the said investment in him wanting to doing this. At the most simplistic level, what could have been a business that paid taxes, employed others, created a new space in the market and taken up commercial locations all went down the drain. Net net, my un named friend returned to the US, Started a similar thing for halaal-pre made meals and 8 years later got acquired by a kosher foods producer looking to diversify and netted XX$MM for him self.
0 Jobs created in Pakistan
0 Pakistani outcomes enhanced
1 Point for the Taya to get his last word in that day
0 Second generation kids of a successful Pakistani entrepreneur that will come to Pakistan to invest